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Friday - Given my tremendous fatigue, I thought about not doing my Friday Fast. Given the absurd amount of food I ate the night before, I didn't dare NOT fast. It was co-worker Sonia's birthday, so they ordered PF Changs. I was a little late getting out the door in the morning, so when it got to be about 2:30, I didn't feel bad that everyone else was going home early, and I was just going home "on time". I had been going to get cleaned up at home, but Ken called a little after 3:30, from just around the corner. Matt had invited us to Mo's for a drink. I had no problem either way, but Ken was cranky and tired, and just before we headed out the door we opted for napping instead. Had a decent nap, then Dallas and Justin came over. We watched some SYTYCD - Chris finally got the boot. Talking about how bad he was, I mentioned that I was as good as him, and Ken interrupted me with "Oh, you're good too, honey", while petting my arm. Gave him a look like I was going to spit on him, but that was as much drama as happened. There was no e-mail list for Universal, and a $10 cover-charge, so Dallas and I went to Flick's and the Justin and Ken went to Universal. It was only 9:30 or so, and the plan was originally to meet up at Rich's later. I knew from the moment Rich's came up that Ken wasn't going to go. Dallas and I hung out at Flick's for a little while - they had a cover band, but they didn't cover anything in specific. Some Avril Lavigne song, then UB40 or somesuch. Very random. Left there with PLENTY of time still before 11.....Rich's was okay. My friend Jonathan met us out, but the floor didn't start to get busy until midnight or so. There were some different faces out, including Alex, a guy Ken used to hook up with that lives just across the street from us. Jonathan and friends tapped out around 1:20 or so, and Dallas and I forced ourselves to stay dancing until 1:40. I texted Ken, since we'd had no word from him. I didn't figure he would have sent a text when he was leaving Universal, since he's him and all, but that doesn't mean I have to do the same. We waited outside for a few minutes, but he never got back to me. Dallas dropped me off at home, where Ken was brushing his teeth. He'd had a good night - hit on his ex, Shaun, and little Rob, who he cheated on his ex with. I didn't bother mentioning that both of these boys are on the veto list, since the veto list only seems to exist when it's convenient for it to. I need to remember these things when I'm out of work. It was after 2 at that point, so we just snuggled up and went to bed.

Saturday - Woke up way before Ken - tummy was a little upset, but I successfully resisted eating. At first I did, at least. I was going to go down to IB for the grand opening of some vegan cafe - sample bags, sample desserts, etc. Ken called Justin and mentioned getting together for food, and then going over to Glenn's to help out. I had already said that I'd rather help out at Glenn's, if that was on the table, but Ken just hung up the phone and looked at me. Finally got the gist of the conversation out of him, and I ate some bread while he got dressed. We went to Ortega's with Justin - I hadn't been going to eat anything, but Justin gave me his canteloupe, and then I had chips. Not too bad, but more than I wanted. We got out from there earlier than imagined, so we went down to Best Buy. I looked at Wii stuff, and the boys looked at CDs and TVs. Glenn's was fun - we worked there for about 2 hrs or so, which saved him about a full day or so of work on his own. He took us out to Mo's for dinner after that - I had a drink, but wasn't hungry for food. Justin was not so discreet, polishing off 3-4 drinks. Ken only had one as well. We went back to our place, with Justin and Dallas in tow, and Ken got cranky and went for a nap. The boys started making draaaaanks - I was just tipsy enough (after one drink!) to want to save them from drinking too much (since they were so much drunker than I was), so I took heavy sips of each of theirs. We ended up going to the Michael/Madonna party with roommate Anthony. I don't remember a whole lot of the party, except that I talked with some girls about veganism, some old guy who was hitting on me, and I ate EVERYTHING. There was vegan pita with some kind of Indian lentil thing, rolls, and chips and salsa. I got a call from Ken at some point - Brandon was there, and they were planning on going out to Rich's. Jason was also there, though I have no idea why. I was cranky when I got in, but recognized that I was, so I just went to the room and laid down. Jason followed me in - I had hoped he was going to go with Ken and Brandon to Rich's, but he came to talk with me. We ended up in the kitchen, me drunken binging, him saying something. I kicked him out around 1 and passed out. Apparently Brandon and Ken came home after Rich's, invited me out with them, then went to Bacchus and Club San Diego. Brandon had never been. I woke up at 5am, and no Ken. Eventually called him, and he talked on the phone with me until he got home. He laid down naked, and I got to top for a little while. The lube started burning him though (which has happened to me on occasion), and we had to stop. He got really really sick after that - kept saying he was dying. I made him a vegan wrap, which he ate half of, and then we went to sleep.

Sunday - I slept as long as I could, and when I couldn't sleep anymore, I went into the living room and read the GLT. Ken was still sleeping, so I went down to the gym, despite a minor hangover. My workout was okay - it seems the machine I was using wasn't actually broken, it just sometimes asks for my weight (and displays calories) and sometimes does not. It didn't which is probably for the best. I went 32 minutes, but around minute 15 or so, I started to think I was going to keel over on the machine. Did a couple curls, and no crunches, and headed home. Ken was still sleeping when I got there, though Nelson called and invited us to brunch. I thought about staying, but Ken didn't want the computer on, so between going out to brunch with Nelson et al and sitting on the bed watching Ken sleep, I chose the former. Brunch was fun - Mike and Jean (the couple, who I've decided I want to sleep with) were there, as were the lesbians from the party. No one remembered me eating everything in sight, so I guess that's good. One of the girls had a nasty mark on her forehead from being literally falling down drunk. Justin, Jay, and a DELIGHTFUL, if not terribly attractive, gent by the name of Jon (there are so many!) also joined us. I didn't order anything, but folks are used to that by now. After brunch, we went back to Nelson's, chilled on the couches and flipped through the rest of the Freshmen mags laying around. I wrote down some names and books to look up, but eventually started to get antsy. It was almost 4, and I still hadn't heard from Ken. Drove home to find Brandon there - they had both woken up around 3, and were still sluggish. I chatted with Brandon a little - apparently Jason had tried to bring up the gay brain study with them, and also gotten a little upset that I wasn't there when he got there. The boys were content to just eat their fast food and watch TV. Suited me fine, as I hadn't been on the computer yet. Nothing really interesting there, but it was okay. I left for rehearsal, which went well, and then headed home to find the boys FINALLY gearing up to go out. We headed out to Mo's, for maybe a little too long. I was proud of myself - the boys ordered a sampler platter, which includes the questionably vegan onion rings, but I declined even one, knowing how I get. We saw Shaun there, who Ken was flirting with, and I saw Jonathan Cahoon, who picked me up when I saw him. We chatted briefly, and he mentioned that we'd have to get together sometime without all the other people. I heartily agreed. Saw Justin's friend Mike, and his friend Matthew, and their new buddy Nick. Got Matthew's phone number, so I can get the books from his friend Nikki. I love networking. We traipsed over to Flick's after that, where Brian and Gregg were having some sort of Beer Bash fund raiser for Brian's softball team. Also there was the Robert that Ken cheated on his ex with. Robert was flirty, and Ken was flirty back, and I was uncomfortable, but didn't say anything. A gorgeous black gent hit on me - I've sen him before, and if I ever see him when I'm alone, I'll maybe make something happen. Other than the Robert thing, Ken was really good - even gave me a shot towards the end of the night, which was EXACTLY what I needed, since I had been surrounded by progressively drunker boys throughout the evening. Ran into Jonny (Matt from Escondido's roommate), Daniel (gay Jason's bf), and Dennis (+ friend of gay Jason's that I almost hooked up with a few weeks back). It was karaoke night, and some of those bitches can SANG. I have a small crush on the host, who is a great singer who should choose better songs. We were going to head over to Universal, but they were closed, so Ken and I tapped out, and Brandon went back with Brian and Gregg. I was delighted that Brian made mention of our 3-way from last year, and that he would do it again in a heartbeat. I drove us home, and Ken started his drunk-talk about if he was good. I said he was, but that the Robert thing made me uncomfortable. Since I didn't say he was perfect, and he was drunk, we ended up with a small argument. Nothing too bad, and even though he left me standing in the living room, he came and got me after a few minutes. I had been going to sleep on the couch, but this was fine, too. Kind of hoping for sex, since we hadn't finished that morning, but not really expecting it, since he was drunk. Not a bad weekend, overall. My only regret is Saturday night - I could wish I hadn't tried to save the boys from their drinks, and I could wish that Jason hadn't shown up unannounced. Other than that, I got no complaints.