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thepnutgalleryWednesday - Work wasn't terribly busy - I didn't get out early, but it seemed like everyone else did. Jason promised me I could get out early on Thursday. I was a good boy, and went to Dreamy Ron's spin class after work. Didn't get a really great workout - the only music I liked that he played was someone's remix of Adagio for Strings. Meh. Probably still more than I would have gotten on my own. I saw Brad (older, witty gent from a while back) in the locker room, only this time he didn't come off as witty. More obnoxious. Didn't really feel like showering, so I just drove home. Ken had had a semi-decent workout himself, and was just getting ready to make dinner. He was going to make a giant salad with tofu, and put me in charge of the tofu. Yay! He recognizes my to-fu! Only weird thing was that he kept reacting as though I was snapping at him, even though neither of us thought I was. I had already kind of figured that we weren't having sex, since we'd had it the night before, so I went ahead and munched on carrots and celery while he watched TV. We went to bed kind of late, but everything was peachy.
Thursday - Ken received HUGE news at work - they want him for a position in Oakland. We met up at lunch to talk about it. There's a lot of details to be ironed out, but in all honesty, he'll probably take it. His big thing was to make sure I knew that he didn't want to move without me. D'awwwwww....but given that I've already applied to a couple schools in San Diego, and I'll go where ever gives me the best scholarship......we'll see. I'd certainly miss him, and we'd visit each other often, if I did end up going to school elsewhere. On my way to lunch, my car died (right turn), only after it died, it was being very very wonky. I drove straight home, instead of running the several errands that I wanted to, and there was some green stuff leaking when I finally parked my car. No es bueno. Ken offered to pick me up, and we went to the gym together. I started on a bike, moved to the elliptical, and finally got on a cross-trainer when one opened up. I didn't really have a full workout in me - somewhere between 300-400 calories for the whole thing. Ken called it quits before I did, on account of his underwear being wonky. Headed home and made dinner, and then he went off to poker, and I waited for Jason and Marcus. I didn't really want to host anyone, but Jason is lonely and bored with no job, and Marcus is in need of non-user friends and support. The two of them came over and we had decent chats, but after the chats, they were content to just hang out. Even when I disappeared into the kitchen for a half hour, they just sat on the couch watching TV. I know I should have said something, but dammit people, take a fucking hint. Ken actually came home and went to sleep, and I went to bed, before Jason finally left. I was very very cranky from not having gotten any time to myself. I went out to do push-ups, to calm myself down, despite Ken's protests. He was upset when I got back - doesn't he realize I do these things - yes, for me, but for me so that I am okay for us? It wasn't a huge problem, since he was randy, and not hard to convince that sex was better than sleeping on opposite sides of the bed. I wasn't very good, but I had an awesome O. I think Ken had a good time. I slept beautifully, at any rate.
Friday - Really really really hoping to get out of work early, take my car in, hit up Paradowski's and Target, then run home and to the gym. Instead, worked my ass off while my co-workers lounged around and chatted. Also, we officially had our music priveleges taken away, so they just talked more, and I had no choice but to hear them. Ended up getting out all of 10 minutes early. Drove down to Precision Tune, where they told me a gasket had blown. The gasket is $10 and 5 minutes to replace. The coolant that had leaked all over my engine - $1500 and 9 hrs. Jeebus. Thank goodness I've already paid for the cruise, and I'm going on it next week. Called Ken, who was just getting ready to leave work, and he picked me up. We headed over to Paradowski's, where I bought two swim suits for me, and one for him. Home after that, and the mad rush to pack everything, and wash everything. I was very very drained, and he was absolutely wonderful. We managed to get all packed, and I even got a little, though not enough, alone time, and then we headed off to poker with Matthew and Allen. I opted not to play, though I did eat too much in nuts and crackers, and Ken won! We were supposed to go to all the bars we don't go to, but Matt and Ken ended up going to Rich's, and I took Allen home before trying to get in my actual alone time. It wouldn't have been pretty if I didn't get it. Threw up what nuts and cracker I could, and then had a bowl of chocolate pudding. The entire bowl of pudding isn't equal in calories to so much as one of the servings of nuts I had, so I wasn't worried. Ken came home just a bit early, and more than a bit tipsy from Rich's. We had drunk-talk in the kitchen for a while, and drunk talk in our room for a little while. It always comes from a good place, but it sometimes takes detours through some of the rougher parts of town. Last night's detours included the unfinished sentence "You need to stop being such a....", the finished sentence "Dennis means more to me than you ever will.", and the fact that he admits he's told "fibs" in the past, but flatly refuses to tell me what they are. There were sweeter stops, too, I just have an easier time remembering the things that go in his "wrong file". :-D
Thursday - Ken received HUGE news at work - they want him for a position in Oakland. We met up at lunch to talk about it. There's a lot of details to be ironed out, but in all honesty, he'll probably take it. His big thing was to make sure I knew that he didn't want to move without me. D'awwwwww....but given that I've already applied to a couple schools in San Diego, and I'll go where ever gives me the best scholarship......we'll see. I'd certainly miss him, and we'd visit each other often, if I did end up going to school elsewhere. On my way to lunch, my car died (right turn), only after it died, it was being very very wonky. I drove straight home, instead of running the several errands that I wanted to, and there was some green stuff leaking when I finally parked my car. No es bueno. Ken offered to pick me up, and we went to the gym together. I started on a bike, moved to the elliptical, and finally got on a cross-trainer when one opened up. I didn't really have a full workout in me - somewhere between 300-400 calories for the whole thing. Ken called it quits before I did, on account of his underwear being wonky. Headed home and made dinner, and then he went off to poker, and I waited for Jason and Marcus. I didn't really want to host anyone, but Jason is lonely and bored with no job, and Marcus is in need of non-user friends and support. The two of them came over and we had decent chats, but after the chats, they were content to just hang out. Even when I disappeared into the kitchen for a half hour, they just sat on the couch watching TV. I know I should have said something, but dammit people, take a fucking hint. Ken actually came home and went to sleep, and I went to bed, before Jason finally left. I was very very cranky from not having gotten any time to myself. I went out to do push-ups, to calm myself down, despite Ken's protests. He was upset when I got back - doesn't he realize I do these things - yes, for me, but for me so that I am okay for us? It wasn't a huge problem, since he was randy, and not hard to convince that sex was better than sleeping on opposite sides of the bed. I wasn't very good, but I had an awesome O. I think Ken had a good time. I slept beautifully, at any rate.
Friday - Really really really hoping to get out of work early, take my car in, hit up Paradowski's and Target, then run home and to the gym. Instead, worked my ass off while my co-workers lounged around and chatted. Also, we officially had our music priveleges taken away, so they just talked more, and I had no choice but to hear them. Ended up getting out all of 10 minutes early. Drove down to Precision Tune, where they told me a gasket had blown. The gasket is $10 and 5 minutes to replace. The coolant that had leaked all over my engine - $1500 and 9 hrs. Jeebus. Thank goodness I've already paid for the cruise, and I'm going on it next week. Called Ken, who was just getting ready to leave work, and he picked me up. We headed over to Paradowski's, where I bought two swim suits for me, and one for him. Home after that, and the mad rush to pack everything, and wash everything. I was very very drained, and he was absolutely wonderful. We managed to get all packed, and I even got a little, though not enough, alone time, and then we headed off to poker with Matthew and Allen. I opted not to play, though I did eat too much in nuts and crackers, and Ken won! We were supposed to go to all the bars we don't go to, but Matt and Ken ended up going to Rich's, and I took Allen home before trying to get in my actual alone time. It wouldn't have been pretty if I didn't get it. Threw up what nuts and cracker I could, and then had a bowl of chocolate pudding. The entire bowl of pudding isn't equal in calories to so much as one of the servings of nuts I had, so I wasn't worried. Ken came home just a bit early, and more than a bit tipsy from Rich's. We had drunk-talk in the kitchen for a while, and drunk talk in our room for a little while. It always comes from a good place, but it sometimes takes detours through some of the rougher parts of town. Last night's detours included the unfinished sentence "You need to stop being such a....", the finished sentence "Dennis means more to me than you ever will.", and the fact that he admits he's told "fibs" in the past, but flatly refuses to tell me what they are. There were sweeter stops, too, I just have an easier time remembering the things that go in his "wrong file". :-D
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