Not In A Bad Way
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thepnutgalleryWarren sent me a text thanking me for the snuggles, but it didn't come through until later, so we messaged via FB instead. I asked him why we hadn't had sex all week - I'd hoped it was something going on with him. Maybe he wasn't feeling well, or the mac n cheese was fucking him up, or he was tired. But instead...
Warren: I enjoy sex with you. I just feel like I enjoy spending time non sexually with you more.
Me: Okay
Warren: like not in a bad way though
Me: I'm having a hard time thinking of a way that wouldn't be bad
Warren: that you're a really fun person I enjoy shaking hands with and spending time with
He'd invited me to Martini's with his gaybors, but I really wasn't in the mood to go out at that point. I did finally get back into the gym, both to work through my thoughts and to try not to feel like such a marshmallow.
He messaged me again, but his answers were sort of all over the place. He doesn't like using condoms, but he's not okay barebacking with a sex worker.
Warren: I enjoy sex with you. I just feel like I enjoy spending time non sexually with you more.
Me: Okay
Warren: like not in a bad way though
Me: I'm having a hard time thinking of a way that wouldn't be bad
Warren: that you're a really fun person I enjoy shaking hands with and spending time with
He'd invited me to Martini's with his gaybors, but I really wasn't in the mood to go out at that point. I did finally get back into the gym, both to work through my thoughts and to try not to feel like such a marshmallow.
He messaged me again, but his answers were sort of all over the place. He doesn't like using condoms, but he's not okay barebacking with a sex worker.
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