(no subject)

[thepnutgallery]

Had a decent, if remarkably sober weekend. Ken had a half day at work, since Monday was a holiday, so I went in early to get out early. After work, he took care of some car stuff, and I bought some flowers and Tofurkey Sausages -very tasty, just not worth the 300 calories/link, so I only have them about once every 6 months. I managed to not eat the whole thing in the car....I had the last two when I got home. They taste fantastic with vegan ranch dressing. Ken's car was home when I got there, but Ken was at the DMV. He had walked, but forgotten to bring his registration, so I joined him there, and then for a quick stop at the store. We had sex in the same position as the day beofre, and it was just as rockin. Afterwards, he made us dinner, which I think was making up for Thursday, but was super tasty, whatever it was for, and then I did the dishes.

Mauro Piccoto was playing at a club called Belo downtown, so Ken & Brandon went to that, but I don't like cover or downtown, so I went to Rich's instead.....I was super super nervous, since it was my first time being there (or at any club) alone, and I thought several times about not going, but I went, and I'm glad I did - I had a BLAST! I was sober, since I drove, but once you actually get out on the floor, that really doesn't matter anyway. Got hit on by a few boys, but there was only one I would have taken home to Ken, and that was just as I was leaving. One guy bought me a drink, but then kind of stalked me the whole night, and even tried to finger me on the dance floor. Ew. I thought about leaving around 1, but the dj kept playing songs I loved, so I ended up leaving 1:45 or so. Got home a scant 5-10 minutes before Ken called, and I went to pick him up. He'd had a tiff with Brandon, so it was just him that I picked up. All in all, a VERY good Friday.

Woke up Saturday morning and made Tofu Sausage scramble and coffee for breakfast, mostly for Ken, but I had the leftovers, since there wasn't enough left to save. Saturday afternoon we went to Kenny's, since Nelson was out of town. He had been going to have an open house, but the client cancelled due to the heat. We brought over vodka and diet sunkist, and just hung out for a good long time. Ken bought some appetizers from Amarin, and made 2/3 of them vegan. I'm always touched when people are considerate like that, even if I also kind of expect it of them. :-D It also works out well since Ken wouldn't have finished them on his own, and it ended up that that was the last "real" thing I had to eat that day - I had some mixed nuts and some chips later, but that was it. Justin eventually joined us, and the boys got pizza, and then Ken and I left to get ready for the party at the Hall of Justice. The party was fun, if brief, and I got in some good conversation with folks there. We headed up to Mira Mesa for board games after that- we both had drinks, but mine was giving me a headache, so rather than try to force the issue, I just didn't drink. Ken won at scrabble, and then we played Taboo. I think I prefer team games like that or Cranium, as opposed to move pieces around the board type games. We were originally going to make it a slumber party, but I don't do so well sleeping other places - I do just fine passing out, just not sleeping.

Woke up quite restless on Sunday, though I opted to stay in bed all the way until 9am before I finally got up. We put fuel in the car, and washed it, and then met Nikki for lunch at Ranchos - the veggie burrito I got was EXACTLY what I had been craving. I felt kind of bad, because Ken got a vegan dish that he didn't care for, and I should have just swapped him plates, since I don't really care what I'm eating. He did eat some of mine, so I don't feel TOO bad, but still. After that, we were going to run some errands, but didn't on account of the heat...I don't really understand that, since the places were running them all had air conditioning, but oh, well. Ken went to Kenny's open house, but I had rehearsal in about 2 hrs, so I stayed home to get some studying done in the interim. I got through one of the sections on a practice test before I kind of passed out...woke up at exactly 4, just long enough to call rehearsal and let them know I wasn't going to make it and grab a blue freezer pack. Ken got back around 5:30, to find me still on the couch, in a puddle of sweat and hugging the ice pack like some kind of teddy bear. Nikki, Kenny, Dale, and Justin were all watching movies and eating chips and the like over at Justin's, and I tried to join them, but my temple was throbbing and I was nauseus, so I kept going back to lay on the couch at home. I was later informed that I was dehydrated. I kept hydrated from there on out, and started feeling better just in time to go out for the evening. Everyone had been drinking, except me, so I volunteered to DD, and took everyone to Rich's after some narrowly averted trouble with Justin. Since I wasn't drinking, Ken gave me a Xanex just before we went into the club, and I figured I'd give it one more chance. I had been going to go to Brass Rail, since they had no cover, but Ken wanted to go to Rich's, so I went there and paid the $10 cover. The real issue for me with that is just that Ken doesn't like the DJ, and knew that before we went, so we didn't stay long. He told me I could stay without him, but I wouldn't feel right. We got home, and he popped onto A4A, but now that I didn't have the club to pep me up, the Xanex was making me super sleepy, so we went to bed. I would normally have felt bad about this, but he's the one that gave me Xanex. I woke up a couple of times throughout the night, to find Ken in the hallway bathroom with his phone, and he kept asking me what time I was going into work. Shady. It's a good thing that, ever since that day with Matthew, and the initial drama with Hank and Jonathan, he has a perfect track record as far as letting me know when he's stepping out.

Finally went into work, only to find no one else there, and no work to be done, so I came home. Ken was on A4A, and said no one was biting, but we gave it one more chance, and in minutes, had a couple takers. The guy we had over wasn't bad, though he was also not fantastic. Very nice, very witty, though. I didn't end up cumming, since I anticipated further activities later in the evening. After that, Ken went to Black's with Kenny, and I stayed to study. Took a small break to have lunch with Anthony - more thrilled than anyone should be to be compared to Lindsay Lohan. Got a little studying done, but mostly just managed to keep from getting dehydrated. Got drunk dialed around 3:30, Ken wishing I was there with him, and trying to figure out how to get them home, since they had both been drinking heavily. I called around 4:30, having a solution in mind, only to be hung up on/disconnected and not called back. The boys eventually got home, and then we went to Flick's to meet Brian and Greg and friends. One of the boys there was a boy that Ken has had a BIGBIG crush on for a long time, and vice versa, and Ken immediately hopped in his lap. Jason also met us there, just in time for the party to move to Mo's. I thought the guy was cute myself, but was not entirely unhappy that he didn't join us at Mo's. I opted not to drink at Mo's, on account of the expense of drinks (this was even more wise when the bill finally came), and I also opted not to eat, though Ken bought me a side of fries anyway. I almost declined the shots of Chocolate Cake that the boys kept getting for the August b-days, and really should have, but I didn't want to be any more of a fuddy-dud than I already was by not drinking. There was just no point to my doing them, since they didn't have enough alcohol, spread out over 4 hrs, to actually do anything. Ken, on the other hand, had been drinking all day, got cocktails there, and did 3 Chocolate Cakes and a Powerblaster. At one point another boy that wants to sleep with Ken/us came up, and sat down for a bit, and Ken actually wanted me to move so he could sit next to him, and I politely but bluntly refused. We finally called it a night around 10:30, though we stopped at Flick's on the way back. It was originally to use the restroom, but Ken got another drink while there - I finished most of it for him. Back at home, Ken hopped onto A4A, telling me that, if I wanted to, he was open to engaging in all kinds of sordid behavior. I asked him what he wanted, and he would just flip it again, and tell me the same thing. It was kind of frustrating, because those times that I opted for sleep, he would sigh, and tell me again that, if I wanted, he was open to debauchery. He finally, and rather adorably, passed out, and I went to bed.....Huh. Not quite as good a weekend as I thought it was, in retrospect.